I am so grateful for my spiritual friendships!
True friends reflect back to me the quality of my heart when I am unable to see it within myself.
They encourage me to grow beyond my present life situation.
That is why I cultivate spiritual friendships, both present and new ones!
Thank You, God, for friends who love and support my soul!
Amen

Spiritual Women Have Critical Conversations
Last month at Elizabeth’s House we invited women to participate in a Critical Conversation. Participants asked women in the group to share personal stories about their lives, and it affirmed what we already know – when women are willing to make themselves vulnerable and tell the truth about their lives, they can serve one another in profound ways. There is healing in the knowledge we are not alone, no matter what our secret might be.
Think about the kinds of conversations you engage in on a regular basis with other women. What (or who) do you talk about? Do your conversations leave you feeling uplifted or down? Just notice. After the surface stuff like acknowledging the cute hair, the new shoes, or the beautiful outfit, do you have anything else you would like to say? Not every conversation has to be deep or thought-provoking, but they can be intentional. Getting beyond the surface to connect from the heart might just require an intention on your part.
Spiritual Women are Intentional
Intention is often confused with goals. Goals are something you want to accomplish, intention describes how you want to get it. If you find yourself wanting to have more meaningful conversations with your friends set an intention to bring meaning to them. What would you really like to talk about? Can you ask for what you need? Can you be vulnerable in the relationship? Can you share from your own heart to engage another?
Spiritual Women are Good Listeners
The thing I appreciate the most about my spiritual friends is their ability to listen. What a gift to have someone who will simply listen while we unload the important details of our lives. Here are other qualities great listeners share:
- Great listeners aren’t interrupting you to make a point. They don’t talk over you to share their story before you’re finished with yours
- Great listeners don’t offer feedback unless they’re asked. They have no desire to fix you because they don’t see you as broken
- Great listeners gift you with quiet listening so that you can hear yourself think
Peace and gratitude to the women courageous enough to walk this path. I honor you all.
Beth